A List of Loves

Today, I want to make a list of things I love about my soon-to-be husband (4 months is soon lah!), lest I forget one day when I'm mad at him. =P

I love how calm and patient he is with everyone and everything. His accepting spirit makes me feel safe and assured of my worth no matter what I do wrong.

I love how he's so considerate, and treats me like a gentleman would. Chivalry never gets old. <3

I love how these qualities are part of his character, and extends to people around him as well. I'm not afraid that this is just the "honeymoon" stage that will disappear soon after marriage.

I love how we share the same ideas about what's sensible and practical.

I love how he listens to me and supports me because he knows I need it.

I love the way he adapts to my habits without complaining, and even seems glad to do it.

I love how he's not possessive, and trusts me. I love that I can trust him too.

I love how smart he is, and I love how it doesn't go into his head even so. Smart IS the new sexy.

I love it when he says he's so lucky to have found me, and asks (rhetorically) what did he ever do to deserve me.

What a catch, right?

Comments

  1. jw3rnJanuary 31, 2014 at 7:46 PM

    <3 <3 <3 Not to mention, he isn't afraid of posting hearts all over your post. =P <3 <3 <3

    <3 <3 <3

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  2. jw3rnJanuary 31, 2014 at 7:47 PM

    Okay now I feel embarrassed. :P

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  3. j@VeMay 12, 2014 at 8:16 AM

    I'm so jealous of you May

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